If you’ve ever been ghosted, you’ll know that it’s not a very pleasant experience, and you wouldn’t, under normal circumstances, wish it upon anyone else. However, there are instances when men do detestable things, giving women no choice but to ghost them. This was the belief of one online user who asked women on a forum what things men do that would prompt them to ghost them.
Making Inappropriate Comments
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A big red flag for many women is when men talk in a very inappropriate way when they have only known you for a short period of time. One user said, “When you’ve known them for a whole 10 minutes, and they’re already making inappropriate advances”. Another woman recalled one encounter she had with a man when she said, “We chatted fine for the first few exchanges, but it got steamy very quickly. He even started calling me babe on the second day, ‘Hey Bronco babe.’”
Sending Unsolicited Pictures
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Along with overly recusal comments come pictures of dudes that you definitely did not ask for. One woman responded that “Send unsolicited private photos and still have the audacity to ask if I want some of it,” and received a lot of votes of agreement.
Being Too Demanding
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When men cannot take no for an answer, there is often no choice but to ghost them. One woman spoke of going on a date with a man but could not make it when he asked her out again. She told readers, “I told him I had a funeral tomorrow morning and just didn’t feel like going out. ‘What time is the funeral?’ he said. ‘I won’t stay too long, please I really want to see you…'” It seems that he did not take no for an answer even when the woman had a tough day ahead.
Stalking
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One horrified woman said she went on a date with a man who revealed, “He admitted that he placed a GPS tracker in his exes car to track her without her knowledge.” We are not sure whether ghosting was quite enough. Perhaps the police may want to be involved with this man.
Ignoring You on A Date
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One woman said that men who do not show interest in a date do not deserve good communication after the date. She said, “Someone that doesn’t try to maintain a conversation with you. Like you’re talking to yourself” is not worth pursuing.
Calling You Too Much
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One comment that got a lot of upvotes was this: “Random, constant calling.. I’m at work, dude!!!” It seems that some men are just too eager for a relationship and need to learn to slow down a little.
Violence
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At any hit of violence, ghosting is justified. One woman explained she offered an “Immediate block, not dealing with that. If I feel threatened, your feelings about being ghosted do not supersede mine of feeling safe.” We agree that this is sound advice when dating.
Speaking Bad About Their Ex
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One online user said that when men “talk about how they treated their exes, children, and employees in a way that demonstrates they are clearly controlling and toxic w/o realizing it,” is a good reason to ghost someone. Like violence, if there is any hint of toxicity, a man has no place to complain about being ignored.
Putting Other Women Down
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As well as bad-mouthing their exes, men should also refrain from putting down other women, as one person explained, “Telling me you like me better with X or you’re glad I don’t do Y like some girls. Complimenting me by putting others down is a no for me, dog.” You can guarantee that if a person is bad-mouthing others, they are likely to bad-mouth you when you are not around.
Being Critical of You
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Put simply, one woman said, “Criticizing you on your efforts” is a huge reason why she would not get back in touch with a date. A date should be full of genuine compliments, not hurtful accusations.
Making Assumptions
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When a man assumes to know you and seems controlling of your likes and dislikes, he should be for the bin. This is the view of one woman who said, “I bet you only like guys who go to the gym. You’re probably one of those people who order appetizers. You probably only go to the club on the weekend. You probably believe in astrology.”
Being Impatient
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A lot of men simply need to slow down if they want continued affection. One person said, “Sending a message then 2 minutes later sending question marks then a couple more minutes later sending ‘hello??’ Bye lol.”This point gets a hard agreement from us as no one should be rushed into a relationship.
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